7 Ways To Get Out Of Bed To Meditate
It’s almost a year ago since Vishnu contacted me for Life Coaching and we only worked together for a short period of time.
Mainly because he’s the type of person that the mere act of hiring me was enough to get him up and running.
He was an absolutely joy to work with because he’s smart, incisive and has a wicked sense of humor and we did a lot of laughing.
And one other thing, but please don’t tell him this or he may invoice me.
I’m pretty sure I’d learned as much from him as he did from me, he’s a very wise fella!
He has since started his own kick-ass blog and I have a sneaking feeling he’s going to be a blogging superstar in the not too distant future. Here’s his guest post.
7 Ways To Get Out Of Bed To Meditate
Sitting down to meditate can be hard work.
Especially when you fell asleep after midnight due to those damn new episodes of the Housewives of New Jersey or after having decided to stay out later than expected to help your ‘friend’ the bartender ‘close up’ the bar at night.
Not only do you get to bed late, but your neighbor’s dog, Rudolph, spent most of the night guarding your neighbor’s house like a high security prison; barking at cars, passerby’s, the late night bus, the very early morning sprinkler system and the dawn newspaper delivery.
After a restless night of sleep, all we’d like to do in the morning is squeeze in another 5 minutes of precious “z’s” to maximize our nocturnal rest!
But what do you do if you’ve committed to a formal meditation practice?
Let’s say you’ve just gotten back from Dharmasala. You had the spiritual journey of your life, met the Dalai Lama who gave you an “I love Tibet” t-shirt, and then gave you one parting instruction;
“Meditate, my son, until your practice makes you feel like the Buddha sipping a cup of oolong tea”.
You’re still scratching your head about that whole Buddha and oolong tea joke but you’ve taken the advice to meditate to heart and started a morning practice.
If not the Dalai Lama, maybe you were a lost soul that stumbled upon A Daring Adventure and were directed to the free book, Don’t Hesitate Meditate – A Guide for Beginners and Skeptics.
You downloaded it, read it and now you are committed to the sensible idea of meditation.
Tims note: It’s still free if you click the link above and you haven’t already got it and no e-mail details needed to grab it!
In my experience, sitting down initially to meditate is the hardest part about the meditation process especially if you’re doing so first thing in the morning.
When you have to get showered, get dressed, get medicated and travel 18 miles uphill in rain and snow to get to your local Starbucks to report for work in the morning, the last thing you’re thinking about is how to squeeze in 5 minutes of meditation.
Well, here’s 7 ways on how to wake up to meditate.
1) Set an alarm with spiritual music.
Wouldn’t it be great to hear a Gregorian chant or a jazzy gospel choir singing to you first thing in the morning?
Check to see if this kind of music will make you jump out of bed to seize your practice or will make sleep in an extra half hour.
If it’s the earlier, then rock some vibrant chanting or meditation music to get you in the mood for a power early morning meditation
2) Set your meditation mat right beside your bed.
Your cats Thelma and Louise may enjoy snuggling right by your bedside but those 2 freeloaders need to crash in a different part of the house.
Clear out your weigh-lifting dumbbells, the vodka bottles and your George Foreman grill and plop your meditation mat right beside your bed.
In the morning, you can literally roll out of bed and roll yourself onto your meditation cushion to start your practice. If you can’t go to your special meditation place, then bring your meditation place to you.
3) Create a spiritual environment around your meditation area.
Instead of those photos of JLo, posters of Cee Lo Green and life-size cut-out of Glee cast members, why not spiritualize your room a little?
How about some pictures of waterfalls and nature?
How about hanging up that wall-hanger of the mountains of the Himalayas you purchased when you went to visit the Dalai Lama?
How about turning on that lava lamp and disco ball (kidding folks!)
You get the picture; make your room or meditation area feel like you’d want to meditate there.
4) Go to bed at night after reading spiritual books.
If you read a good passage or two at night from your favorite scriptures, sacred texts or new age guru’s best seller, you’re more likely to think about meditation before you fall asleep.
You’ll be subconsciously planting in your mind that you need to need to hop out of bed in the morning, roll onto your mat and kick your mind into focus.
5) Focus on consistency, not duration.
From my own experience, I’ve found that the difficulty in practicing every day is not about how long you meditate for but how consistently you do it.
Spend your efforts and energy trying to build up your meditation habit by trying to sit to meditate every single day – be it 14 seconds or 15 minutes.
Build up your habit by continuing to sit ever day no matter what gets in the way.
6) Have some monks spend the night in your bedroom to kick off your early morning practice.
What better way to wake up to kick of your practice than having some classically-trained, orange-clad Tibetan monks in your room start chanting out loud first thing in the morning.
I guarantee you that the deep vibrational chanting and your co-meditators will ensure you jump out of bed and sit on your mat – sometimes for hours at a time.
Monks are also lovely house-guests – they don’t party, order pay-per-view movies or wreck your apartment.
7) Commit to meditation.
The most effective way to commit to meditating every morning is to realize the very real benefits of the practice.
Meditation can help you focus, clear your mind, be more centered and even be creative in resolving the problems in your day to day life.
If you realize the power of meditation, you’ll be on that mat like one of your caffeine-addicted Starbucks regulars you serve at work every morning.
While all of us know about the benefits of meditation, many of us resist the one practice that has the ability to transform our lives.
You’re in love with the idea of meditating and everyone tells you to do it. Don’t just be in love with it; use these 7 practices to sit and meditate.
(Disclaimer: Please check your local visa requirements in your country prior to inviting a bunch of Tibetan monks to fly over and move in to your pad.)
*Vishnu blogs at www.vishnusvirtues.com about spirituality and inspiration. If you’re a monk, nun, member of any mainstream cults or missionary you owe it to yourself to get in touch with him.


Meditation can help you focus, clear your mind, be more centered and even be creative in resolving the problems in your day to day life.
Wonderful advice here. Meditation changed my life about a year and a half ago. I can now at this point never imagine not meditating.
Hi Vishnu,
Yes, you do have a wicked sense of humour… and I like it… so much so that I have just joined your list… for more of it… ;O)
For those wondering where to meditate… just meditate where you feel comfortable. Anywhere from five minutes to twenty minutes, plus… the benefits more than outweigh any inconvenience.
Routine has a habit of making you the time during your busy day.
So…
• In bed with or without socks
• Standing at a bus shelter… even if its pelting down with rain
• Eyes open or closed? Whichever suits the situation
• Times a day… “shrug” Once a day is nice, twice a day is better, three times a day… absolute perfection
But just meditate its worth it…
Nice coming across you Vishnu.
Vic
thanks for the feedback Vic. Good meeting you and look forward to keeping in touch.
That’s actually my take, for which I feel very guilty, but as long as I do it.
Oh! I like that option.
7 Ways To Get Out Of Bed To Meditate – Don’t.
Can’t you meditate in bed? (Or am I missing something here?)
Yes you can, but you’re more likely to fall back to sleep or drift off into a trance and neither of those are the same as meditating.
But if you can avoid those pitfalls, then sure no problem.
Very entertaining post! Meditation is so important. It helps us to refocus on what is truly important and remind ourselves of our primary goal in life. It’s so easy to become distracted by all of the things that happen each day. Meditation can set us back on the right path.
Another good call!
Its better to practice meditation after doing some yoga posture. When the body, mind and heart are all relaxed you can really focus on a transcendental sound like Om, Gauranga. It helps more to increase transcendental peace and happiness. These sounds help to purify the mind and heart and increase the nectar for which we’re all anxious.
Good call!
Hey Catherine – yeah, different rituals can help us get into the practice. MOnks in your be
droom might not do it for all of us:) Some might even call the cops if they didn’t know the monks were showing up.
Completely agree with Martin and going to check out his site. I did my best suggestion for last so committing to a practice might be the key. Remembering all the benefits might actually be the key to meditating daily.
I’m not a morning person. Not even close. So a gaggle of monks standing around my bed mumbling wouldn’t excite me to do anything constructive except scowl. And besides, I equate meditation with peace and quiet. Chanting. Ringing of bells. Not going to work.
Yesterday Martin from One Moment Meditation posted this on FB:
“There is no need to go to India or anywhere else to find peace. You will find that deep place of silence right in your room, your garden or even your bathtub.”
Which is why your number 7, commit to meditation, appealed to me (and not because I’m fond of 7’s).
Committing to daily meditation in the bathtub just might be the combo for me. We’ll see. Starting tomorrow I have a week with no people – it’d be the perfect time to put something like this in place.
I’m the same Catherine. Meditating in the morning is torture to me!
OK, (first up, there is a question for Vishnu (and Tim…) at the end of this, so bear with me). Again, OK, have to share, I’m in “OverWhelm”! This was a great post and really hit a nerve. I have just replaced the battery in my bedside alarm clock promising myself I will set it for 5am to…, meditate, (listening to the TB recommended: Guided Meditations for Busy People (Led by Bodhipaksa), and Meditations for Manifesting (Dr Wayne Dwyer) which I duly ordered from Amazons after reading Tims eBook on meditating, Thank You Tim). PLUS today I started reading a fun travel book Yoga School Dropout by Lucy Edge which also touches very heavily but with great wit on meditation (in India, in ashrams, in the yoga context). Lastly, end of the day, finishing off with listening to the Bliss Album, “A Hundred Thousand Angels” and the track that really hit me was called “Shiv Shakti” (and if I am able to link to YouTube, this is a great version of the music and some amazing artwork/imagery: http://youtu.be/Qzz4YdBrMWs). NOW AND FINALLY, MY QUESTION: Shiv Shakti seems to be a spiritual/meditative greeting/person/message. Vishnu (or Tim) please tell me what it means. Thank you both again for this great read! And more importantly for steering me onto my meditation discovery tour/practice. Mary-Ann
I’ll let Vishnu get that one ;-)
Mary-Ann – sounds like you have plenty of resources to kick off your meditation practice. I’m not familiar with the video you mentioned but watching it – it seems to be a celebration of spiritual women! and has great background music that you can meditate to. Keep us posted on how your practice develops. Thanks for dropping by.
Hi, Vishnu, Tim, and Mary-Ann =) Shakti, in Hinduism, is the personification of divine feminine creative power, which is not only responsible for creation, but is also the agent of all change. Mary-Ann, it seems like the agent of change is speaking directly to your desire to make a change in your life!
Many thanks for the information and wise encouraging words :)
Vishnu, I really enjoyed your tips for meditating! Meditating is a life changer for me and I love hearing what works well for you. The only thing I’m missing is a George Foreman grill!!
YOu’re lucky if no George Foreman grill. I’m encouraging people that have one next to their beds to kick it aside and replace it with a meditation cushion. Thanks for coming by Wendy!
Hey Vishnu!
Your writing is so hilarious, yet extremely practical and full of wisdom. I love it.
P.S. I’m interested in having those Tibetan monks to wake me up in the morning… where would I go about finding them?
There’s obviously a demand and i just snagged tibenanmonksrus.com
Thanks Andrew – appreciate your support and encouragement. Tim, you said you were going let me purchase that domain name!!
Hey, who says sleeping isn’t meditation? You’re in a dream like state, your mind is completely free from thoughts and you’re really focused… on your sleep.
Of course, I’ve never meditated a day in my life. The one time I tried, I made 5 lists. Grocery, Laundry, Admin tasks, Client work and running errands.
All I got from that meditation attempt was a big case of overwhelm.
Yes, I know I probably did it wrong but I’m too afraid of my unfinished list to try again.
Great post Vishnu!
I’m sure you really know this, but the meditative state is much different to that of the sleeping state.
Most importantly the conscious mind is awake in meditation, with sleep, not much.
Samar – thanks for dropping in. Look how powerful meditation can be – you made 5 lists in one sitting and were able to organize your to do lists:) Meditation is relatively easy to do but it is worth reading a “how to” book about it, taking a basic course etc. I’ve usually done so to help encourage me to keep up with the practice and find better ways to stay focused.
I guess if all else fails, it’s like a power nap!
Tim – I do :) I think the real problem is my not having put in enough time to learn it properly. Apologies if my comment came across as insensitive.
Vishnu – That’s true. I did eventually complete every item on those lists :) Thanks for the tip about taking a basic course. That’s a good idea!
Nah, don’t be silly, it was fine.
Love this post, Vishnu! I totally agree that consistency is key I go through cycles with meditation where I develop a nice consistent practice , but if something disrupts it, it takes me a while to get it back.
I have a spot set up in the room across the hall from my bedroom but I may need to move it to the floor next to the bed.
Bloody hell, you never comment on my blog till I get a guest poster! ;-)
Thanks so much Tina – appreciate your feedback. Thanks for always commenting on my posts in the blogosphere:) (just kidding – this is my first post on another blog)
Yup, making your practice as easily accessible will eliminate any reason to have an excuse for not meditating. Don a orange monk’s robe and go to bed with the mat right next to you – almost certain you’ll have no choice but to meditate:)
I’ll have to see about that monk’s robe!
well I have commented at least ONE other time ;)
love this article, especially for this year 2012, cos this is the year that youre continous meditation will stand to you, i find when i start mediatation after i wake I fall back to sleep again :(
Do you sit upright?
Another option is to open the windows in the winter so you’re cold and won’t fall back to sleep!
another proponent for sleeping meditation!
to follow up on Tim’s upright suggestion, have you tried the upside down version Fred? sort of like a handstand yoga pose for a few minutes at a time?
Sadly, I don’t think any of these tips will help me. The best thing I’ve found so far to make me meditate is to do it right after I’v exercised. Even if it’s not exactly the same time per day, the element of routine helps me do it. Unfortunately I also hate routines of any kind and prefer to do things when I feel like it. Which sadly means I’ve been rubbish at meditating recently and haven’t done it properly for over a week now.
There’s just always something more interesting to do! Even though I’m 100% sold on meditation’s benefits!
I guess it’s just a habit you’ve got to build up. At first when I started exercising every day, I had to force myself to do it. Then after a while it just became something I do every day… like having breakfast. I’m guessing I just need to force myself to put in the effort to make meditation an ingrained habit in this way too.
I’m a bit like that. Mornings are tough for me and I usually either meditate mid-afternoon or just before bed.
Whenever works for you best is the ideal time to meditate, Mouse. I know what you mean by there’s always something more interesting to do. Half the time we are thinking up great things in our mind while meditating. Lol but I do get really great ideas AFTER my practice.
this may be kind of out there but have you thought about doing an immersion program in a local monastery?
:)
I’d just like to confirm that forcing myself to meditate right after exercising is the best time for me. I wonder what other “hooks” other might might want to use. Right after their shower, just before bed etc
On his blog – “If I had time to read blogs, I would read Vishnu’s Virtues.” – Anonymous Tibetan Monk
LOL! I like this guy and have just signed up to his blog.
ha ha. thanks mouse – appreciate the feedback and glad you’re enjoying the humor:)
It is the “consistency” that freaks me out each time. My head is full of good intentions that convert into action – except for the “meditation” intention. Vishnu, where can I get in touch with these monks? A couple of weeks ago Sunday I posted a series of little monks…. but they’re too playful.
I am trying my best to start the day with meditation and succeed most of the time, since I am up at 5.30 am.
Enjoyed the post very much. Thank you Vishnu and Tim!
HI Vidya – actually Tim and I working on this new online business. You’re going to love it. You’ll get to pick which religion, which monks and from what part of the world and they’ll show up like singing telegrams to your home (within 24hours – or was it 48 Tim?)
Consistency is the hard part but just trying to stay committed to it everyday is the key, no? I may only meditate for 30 seconds some days but at least I can stay on practice. Thanks for your comment Vidya.
Hilarious! And practical too! What a great article Vishnu! Like Linda, it has encouraged me to start meditation again “soon”. Although sometimes when I want to escape the constant chatter of my kids…I lock myself in the toilet for rare quiet time… i reckon that qualifies as a type of meditation! :D
Thanks Cyndi – I’m learning about all kinds of meditation techniques from Tim’s community – like sleeping meditation from Milo. He just wakes up and continues sleeping for a couple hours and calls that meditation. You’ve now introduced me to bathroom meditation. I got to try that one out:) How long do the kids let you stay locked up before trying to break the doors down:) ?
Vishnu,
Thank you so much for posting! And Tim, that you for posting this TODAY! I have started and stopped meditation a few times, and was really beginning to feel the need to start again “soon”. Well, tonight it starts! Thank you!
Linda
THanks Linda for dropping by. Starting is the hardest part, no? I hope it happened for you last night. If not, I’m really considering part 2 of this post – how to stay awake and meditate. there’s even a pun in there:)
I just want to thank Vishnu for a great post!
This is the kind of quality I just love from guest posters.
He only sent it to me yesterday but I couldn’t wait to publish and not shove it on to a slow traffic day like Friday and I planned before reading it!
Thank you so much Tim. Really appreciate the opportunity to guest post on my favorite blogs:) And my first guest post anywhere. I’ll always remember it like my first kiss or when I had my first molar yanked out of my mouth or …you get the idea.
You wouldn’t believe how many blog posts pop into my head while meditating! Another reason to meditate – completely kidding here!
Vishnu, I usually meditate right BEFORE bed, that way I am already there :)
See, Tim, you DO have a spiritually-minded community!
Yeh interesting how it’s kinda headed that way recently.
Completely unplanned.
Julie – good strategy! My next post will be 7 ways on how to stay awake to meditate. lol Thanks for dropping by and your comments.
Vishnu,
There are excellent suggestions for overcoming that slight resistance that can pop up when we want to start a regular meditation practice. It took me a long time to become a regular meditation. Now, I don’t think twice. I just sit up first thing in the morning on my bed and meditate right there. Sure, I might need to visit the little girl’s room, but I don’t let anything else get in the way. I appreciate your emphasis on all the benefits that meditation can bring. If people really got it, they wouldn’t hesitate for a moment!
It took me 4 years!
But how do you stay awake Sandra?
Milo…seriously! LOL she stays awake cause meditation is that powerful. Try a waking meditation once in awhile when you’re not in a sleep induced state. Or do it during lunch time (before you eat!! so you don’t fall asleep!!)
Thanks for your visit and comment Janet. As you well know, love your writing too! Purple Panda is one of my favorite blogs out there.
Yeah, I know you were in a monastery for 6 months – how did that work? Did you just hear the chanting and head over or?? Although I was somewhat joking about having monks in your bedroom, I think that’s probably exactly what happens in a monastery. You have no choice but to get up and chant and meditate.
Why bother with a meditation mat beside the bed Vishnu? I just meditate in bed as soon as I wake up, although not for long because it usually sends me off to sleep for another couple of nice hours of gentle slumber.
Milo, that’s a new one – great suggestion. So let me get this straight, you don’t wake up and keep sleeping AND meditate at the same time? I think we should call that one the sleeping meditation. Brilliant!
Lightweight!
What has my drinking got to do with this Tim?
Love this! Great advice given with a super sense of humor! You’ve motivated me to get back into my meditation routine thanks!
Thanks Sinead – appreciate the comments:) I’ve always found that sitting initially and daily to be the hardest part of the practice – I just threw out some of my top suggestions. A couple suggestions have landed me in trouble with various authorities but no jail time:)
Very impressing first guest post Vishnu!! And I love your writing style. You tend to draw good visuals with funny writing. It’s great! Love the spiritual alarm clock suggestion. Not sure about the sleeping monks in your pad.. haha. but as you know, I lived in a monastery for about 6 months!! :P so that was good enough. we chanted every morning.
Thanks for your visit and comment Janet. As you well know, love your writing too! Purple Panda is one of my favorite blogs out there.
Yeah, I know you were in a monastery for 6 months – how did that work? Did you just hear the chanting and head over or?? Although I was somewhat joking about having monks in your bedroom, I think that’s probably exactly what happens in a monastery. You have no choice but to get up and chant and meditate.
I just ordered my Monks FedEx, they should be here on Friday and only $100 apiece or buy 3 get 1 free.