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		<title>By: Tim Brownson</title>
		<link>http://www.adaringadventure.com/blog/wordpress/reviews-previews/self-development-for-smart-people/comment-page-2/#comment-5743</link>
		<dc:creator>Tim Brownson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 19:40:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Dot - I agree and as I said I actually think SP is a very good writer. 

The polarization comes (I think) from the way he delivers his message. It&#039;s almost a &#039;this is how it is and if you don&#039;t agree with me you&#039;re wrong&#039; approach. I think it&#039;s that attitude that offends some people. I may be wrong of course ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Dot &#8211; I agree and as I said I actually think SP is a very good writer. </p>
<p>The polarization comes (I think) from the way he delivers his message. It&#8217;s almost a &#8216;this is how it is and if you don&#8217;t agree with me you&#8217;re wrong&#8217; approach. I think it&#8217;s that attitude that offends some people. I may be wrong of course ;-)</p>
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		<title>By: Dot</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 18:50:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting article.  I don&#039;t understand the polarization in people&#039;s reactions to Mr. Pavlina.  It seems to me you can dislike someone and even not respect them for the way they conduct themselves, yet still find some value in what they write.  That&#039;s the case for me -- I have the same misgivings you have, plus a few more, yet I&#039;m sure all those people who are fans of him and feel he can do no wrong are finding some value somewhere, or they&#039;d stop visiting his site.

Dots last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/deeperissues/eVcQ/~3/510527359/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Weird Tip Tuesday - Revive Old Paperbacks&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting article.  I don&#8217;t understand the polarization in people&#8217;s reactions to Mr. Pavlina.  It seems to me you can dislike someone and even not respect them for the way they conduct themselves, yet still find some value in what they write.  That&#8217;s the case for me &#8212; I have the same misgivings you have, plus a few more, yet I&#8217;m sure all those people who are fans of him and feel he can do no wrong are finding some value somewhere, or they&#8217;d stop visiting his site.</p>
<p>Dots last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/deeperissues/eVcQ/~3/510527359/" rel="nofollow" onclick="javascript:urchinTracker ('/outbound/comment/feeds.feedburner.com');">Weird Tip Tuesday &#8211; Revive Old Paperbacks</a></p>
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		<title>By: Tim Brownson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tim Brownson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Dec 2008 21:33:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Carin - LMAO! Occasionally a non-cerebral opinion is just as valid. Thanks for breaking your vow of silence and joining in the chat ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Carin &#8211; LMAO! Occasionally a non-cerebral opinion is just as valid. Thanks for breaking your vow of silence and joining in the chat ;-)</p>
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		<title>By: carin</title>
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		<dc:creator>carin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Dec 2008 04:50:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i am one of your silent absorbers. i just enjoy what your insights are and find that in many ways we are like minded.

i would not be able to say the same of steve pavlina, therefore i will not be purchasing any of his books.

rather than offer a cerebral opinion, which have been written here to fore i will simply say that he strikes me as
a putz.  no doubt his mother loves him and for that i am glad. i would rather not.

now you see why i am a  quiet absorber...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i am one of your silent absorbers. i just enjoy what your insights are and find that in many ways we are like minded.</p>
<p>i would not be able to say the same of steve pavlina, therefore i will not be purchasing any of his books.</p>
<p>rather than offer a cerebral opinion, which have been written here to fore i will simply say that he strikes me as<br />
a putz.  no doubt his mother loves him and for that i am glad. i would rather not.</p>
<p>now you see why i am a  quiet absorber&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: farouk</title>
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		<dc:creator>farouk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2008 11:47:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks for the info :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks for the info :)</p>
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		<title>By: Mark McClure Coaching</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark McClure Coaching</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2008 01:13:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tony&#039;s comment above sums it up well for me:

&quot;In a way Pavlina’s genius was to realize that most people love to read about, or talk about writing a game, rather than actually writing a game.&quot;

Anyway Tim, take heart. If SP&#039;s factually correct - then we&#039;re all but pigments on your subjective reality canvas ;-)

Keep this up and you&#039;ll have him as a JV partner in no time haha!

Mark McClure Coachings last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://markmccluretoday.com/laser-focus-protected-post&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Protected: Laser Focus - 48 Hour Special Starts Now&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tony&#8217;s comment above sums it up well for me:</p>
<p>&#8220;In a way Pavlina’s genius was to realize that most people love to read about, or talk about writing a game, rather than actually writing a game.&#8221;</p>
<p>Anyway Tim, take heart. If SP&#8217;s factually correct &#8211; then we&#8217;re all but pigments on your subjective reality canvas ;-)</p>
<p>Keep this up and you&#8217;ll have him as a JV partner in no time haha!</p>
<p>Mark McClure Coachings last blog post..<a href="http://markmccluretoday.com/laser-focus-protected-post" rel="nofollow" onclick="javascript:urchinTracker ('/outbound/comment/markmccluretoday.com');">Protected: Laser Focus &#8211; 48 Hour Special Starts Now</a></p>
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		<title>By: Tony</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tony</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Dec 2008 17:34:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Tim - I agree. I wasn&#039;t saying that business coaches generally have no value, just perhaps in this case it wasn&#039;t required. I&#039;m conscious I could potentially open a large can of worms here so I&#039;ll back off before my replies get too long-winded :) 

I stand by what I said regards life coaches though. I think if you are stuck in life you will get far more traction and momentum by investing in a good life coach than by consulting SP&#039;s site.  It&#039;s kind of a boot strapping thing. It&#039;s not easy to pull yourself up by your own bootstraps sometimes, whereas a good life coach can grab &#039;em and heave :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Tim &#8211; I agree. I wasn&#8217;t saying that business coaches generally have no value, just perhaps in this case it wasn&#8217;t required. I&#8217;m conscious I could potentially open a large can of worms here so I&#8217;ll back off before my replies get too long-winded :) </p>
<p>I stand by what I said regards life coaches though. I think if you are stuck in life you will get far more traction and momentum by investing in a good life coach than by consulting SP&#8217;s site.  It&#8217;s kind of a boot strapping thing. It&#8217;s not easy to pull yourself up by your own bootstraps sometimes, whereas a good life coach can grab &#8216;em and heave :)</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Brownson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tim Brownson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Dec 2008 14:36:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Tony - That is excellent advice. I think business coach&#039;s can offer a lot of value for people that have little or no experience and business&#039;s that maybe want to change tack, but I also agree that sometimes we just have to get up off our asses and do it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Tony &#8211; That is excellent advice. I think business coach&#8217;s can offer a lot of value for people that have little or no experience and business&#8217;s that maybe want to change tack, but I also agree that sometimes we just have to get up off our asses and do it!</p>
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		<title>By: Tony</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tony</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Dec 2008 09:40:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmm, doesn&#039;t surprise me really. Steve&#039;s post pretty much reflects my comment above. Nothing much to add on that. I stopped reading Steve&#039;s blog because it&#039;s not useful - I liked some of the business article he wrote, but the rest is just of no use to me. Steve himself has said that the most popular article on his site is &quot;how to be an early riser&quot; - I think that pretty much says it all. I mean - come on guys!

I would just like to follow up on Hayden Tompkins posts above regarding Itty Biz. I read the post referred to above and I thought Naomi was a bit harsh. So I read a couple of her other articles and also thought - a bit harsh. On the other hand I do think she is right with regards &quot;do you need a business coach&quot; there is a lot of sense in what she says. 

First, if you are stuck or confused in life, and can&#039;t seem to get going a life coach will help - simply because a third party can often see the wood for the trees and the fact that the coach can make you accountable really helps a ton.

Second, with regards a business coach, you probably don&#039;t need one. Just start a business, any busness and gain the experience and refine the process as you go along. I&#039;ll give you an example. One Friday I was made redundant. A phone call. No redundancy package, no warning. Friday I had a job, Monday the company was gone. I&#039;d worked there for nearly 10 years. 

One week later I had set up my own business and had my first contract. 9 months later I&#039;d earned double what my annual salary had been. I then took 3 months off and moved onto something else that caught my eye. Point is I didn&#039;t do anything special, I had no website, no business plan, in fact no plan at all, but I just plugged away and refined my operation as I went a long. You learn a HELL of a lot in that situation.

The great thing is I am now planning another new business, using all the experience I gained running my old one (and which I still run part-time). It&#039;s all a learning process.

If you don&#039;t have much business experience then set something up part-time. The idea that you have to risk your house to start a business is poppycock. People sometime say to me &quot;I&#039;d like to start a business but don&#039;t want to risk my house&quot; - I say &quot;then start a business where you don&#039;t risk your house!&quot;.

So my FREE advice is: in business, like life, just jump in and try it, refine your process, and, if you &quot;fail&quot;, learn from that and try again. It really is that simple.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmm, doesn&#8217;t surprise me really. Steve&#8217;s post pretty much reflects my comment above. Nothing much to add on that. I stopped reading Steve&#8217;s blog because it&#8217;s not useful &#8211; I liked some of the business article he wrote, but the rest is just of no use to me. Steve himself has said that the most popular article on his site is &#8220;how to be an early riser&#8221; &#8211; I think that pretty much says it all. I mean &#8211; come on guys!</p>
<p>I would just like to follow up on Hayden Tompkins posts above regarding Itty Biz. I read the post referred to above and I thought Naomi was a bit harsh. So I read a couple of her other articles and also thought &#8211; a bit harsh. On the other hand I do think she is right with regards &#8220;do you need a business coach&#8221; there is a lot of sense in what she says. </p>
<p>First, if you are stuck or confused in life, and can&#8217;t seem to get going a life coach will help &#8211; simply because a third party can often see the wood for the trees and the fact that the coach can make you accountable really helps a ton.</p>
<p>Second, with regards a business coach, you probably don&#8217;t need one. Just start a business, any busness and gain the experience and refine the process as you go along. I&#8217;ll give you an example. One Friday I was made redundant. A phone call. No redundancy package, no warning. Friday I had a job, Monday the company was gone. I&#8217;d worked there for nearly 10 years. </p>
<p>One week later I had set up my own business and had my first contract. 9 months later I&#8217;d earned double what my annual salary had been. I then took 3 months off and moved onto something else that caught my eye. Point is I didn&#8217;t do anything special, I had no website, no business plan, in fact no plan at all, but I just plugged away and refined my operation as I went a long. You learn a HELL of a lot in that situation.</p>
<p>The great thing is I am now planning another new business, using all the experience I gained running my old one (and which I still run part-time). It&#8217;s all a learning process.</p>
<p>If you don&#8217;t have much business experience then set something up part-time. The idea that you have to risk your house to start a business is poppycock. People sometime say to me &#8220;I&#8217;d like to start a business but don&#8217;t want to risk my house&#8221; &#8211; I say &#8220;then start a business where you don&#8217;t risk your house!&#8221;.</p>
<p>So my FREE advice is: in business, like life, just jump in and try it, refine your process, and, if you &#8220;fail&#8221;, learn from that and try again. It really is that simple.</p>
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		<title>By: Hayden Tompkins</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hayden Tompkins</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Dec 2008 00:44:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Whoops!

Hayden Tompkinss last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://throughtheillusion.com/2008/12/05/how-to-stop-living-in-fear/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How to Stop Living in Fear&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whoops!</p>
<p>Hayden Tompkinss last blog post..<a href="http://throughtheillusion.com/2008/12/05/how-to-stop-living-in-fear/" rel="nofollow" onclick="javascript:urchinTracker ('/outbound/comment/throughtheillusion.com');">How to Stop Living in Fear</a></p>
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