How To Be Offended
I have no wish to offend anybody that is kind enough to read my blog. In fact I don’t want to offend anybody period, it’s not my style. However, it’s…
Your Mind Plays Tricks On You
I watched the Vice-Presidential debate last night on TV and have to admit I was fascinated in a freak-show kind of way. Apparently it’s unwise to blog about politics unless…
7 Keys To Successful Self Development
One of the most difficult things for many people with self-development is the diving in and getting started part. I hear time and time again from new clients that they…
I'm Such A Loser
I found out some interesting stuff about myself with this de-tox malarkey. Nothing stunning you understand, I didn’t wake up in hell and decide to pull the arms one of…
Little Scary Things (With Nasty Big Pointy Teeth)
Todays post is a guest submission from the brilliant Ali Hale of Aliventures and The Office Diet. Ali is a freelance writer, editor and web designer. Go check out her…
How Do You Change Somebody Else?
All I can say is WOW! I’ve had over 700 e-mails since complaining last week about the uptake for my ‘Ask The Coach’ section.
Sadly though, of those 700, about…
Don’t Just Follow Your Passion
There are any number of books and blogs out there that are happy to tell you that you need to follow your passion in your work to be really and…
Dealing With Forgiveness
Ok, so here we go with the first in a series of indeterminate length called ‘Ask the Coach’ this is where you get to see my thrashing around like a…
Get The Balance Right
As I said in the previous post, everybody has the ability to be both internal and externally focused depending on their circumstances. However, we usually have a tendency to lean…
The Nightmare Scenario
You may not be aware of it, but you have a locus of control. In fact you have two of the little suckers, one external and the other internal. If…












